feat(bindings): update npm scripts

[ObserverOfTime]

• npm run build is removed

• npm run parse is removed

• npm run prebuildify is removed

  • use npm x -- prebuildify ... instead

• npm start will run ts playground (after ts build --wasm)

  • the build can be skipped with npm start --ignore-scripts

• npm test will run node --test instead of ts t

  • requires feat(bindings): add node, python, swift tests #3178

  tree-sitter commands can be run with npm x -- tree-sitter ...

[clason]

I would prefer to keep the management commands local to npm (or ideally tree-sitter) and leave the Makefile as a simple build harness (the sole usecase in my view is to be able to easily compile the parser from a release tarball without having tree-sitter CLI installed).

[ObserverOfTime]

I would prefer to keep the management commands local to npm (or ideally tree-sitter) and leave the Makefile as a simple build harness

Well, make test is still valuable (since some parsers may also want to run ts parse alongside ts test) but make update might indeed be unnecessary. Though perhaps make test should run C binding tests instead. 🤔