ENH: update array slice order option

[Hank0626]

What do these changes do?

• Deal with the big time cost of to_chunk_op when processing the order conversion.

Check code requirements

• tests added / passed (if needed)
• Ensure all linting tests pass

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Merging #494 (7a804a1) into main (d2e1622) will increase coverage by 11.30%.
The diff coverage is n/a.

@@             Coverage Diff             @@
##             main     #494       +/-   ##
===========================================
+ Coverage   82.32%   93.63%   +11.30%     
===========================================
  Files         998      998               
  Lines       77520    77520               
  Branches    16107    16107               
===========================================
+ Hits        63820    72582     +8762     
+ Misses      11536     3303     -8233     
+ Partials     2164     1635      -529     

Flag	Coverage Δ
unittests	93.53% <ø> (+11.32%)	⬆️

Flags with carried forward coverage won't be shown. Click here to find out more.

Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
python/xorbits/_mars/tensor/datasource/array.py	89.68% <ø> (ø)

... and 165 files with indirect coverage changes