fix(vite): support passing --watch to inferred vitest commands (#23298)

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## Current Behavior
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We currently do not handle passing `--watch` when running inferred
`vitest` commands

## Expected Behavior
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We should support handling `--watch`

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Fixes #23185

packages/vite/src/plugins/__snapshots__/plugin-vitest.spec.ts.snap

@@ -8,7 +8,7 @@ exports[`@nx/vite/plugin root project should create nodes 1`] = `
  "targets": {
  "test": {
  "cache": true,
- "command": "vitest run",
+ "command": "vitest",
  "inputs": [
  "default",
  "^production",
@@ -20,6 +20,7 @@ exports[`@nx/vite/plugin root project should create nodes 1`] = `
  ],
  "options": {
  "cwd": ".",
+ "watch": false,
  },
  "outputs": [
  "{projectRoot}/coverage",

packages/vite/src/plugins/__snapshots__/plugin-with-test.spec.ts.snap

@@ -8,7 +8,7 @@ exports[`@nx/vite/plugin with test node root project should create nodes - with
  "targets": {
  "test": {
  "cache": true,
- "command": "vitest run",
+ "command": "vitest",
  "inputs": [
  "default",
  "^production",
@@ -20,6 +20,7 @@ exports[`@nx/vite/plugin with test node root project should create nodes - with
  ],
  "options": {
  "cwd": ".",
+ "watch": false,
  },
  "outputs": [
  "{projectRoot}/coverage",

packages/vite/src/plugins/plugin.ts

@@ -215,8 +215,8 @@ async function testTarget(
  projectRoot: string
 ) {
  return {
- command: `vitest run`,
- options: { cwd: joinPathFragments(projectRoot) },
+ command: `vitest`,
+ options: { cwd: joinPathFragments(projectRoot), watch: false },
  cache: true,
  inputs: [
  ...('production' in namedInputs