fix: add request resource timeout for lazy load, refactor context usage in cache

[chyezh]

issue: #32663

• Use new param to control request resource timeout for lazy load.

• Remove the timeout parameter of Do, remove DoWait. use context to control the timeout.

• Use VersionedNotifier to avoid notify event lost and broadcast, remove the redundant goroutine in cache.

related dev pr: #32684

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Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 46.31579% with 51 lines in your changes are missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 81.71%. Comparing base (37a99ca) to head (7c285e4).
Report is 21 commits behind head on master.

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- Partials     3868     3909      +41     

Files	Coverage Δ
internal/querynodev2/segments/manager.go	76.48% <100.00%> (-2.52%)	⬇️
pkg/util/cache/cache.go	87.87% <100.00%> (-6.46%)	⬇️
pkg/util/paramtable/component_param.go	98.45% <100.00%> (+0.02%)	⬆️
internal/querynodev2/segments/utils.go	29.35% <0.00%> (+3.35%)	⬆️
pkg/util/contextutil/context_util.go	75.51% <69.23%> (-2.27%)	⬇️
internal/querynodev2/segments/retrieve.go	78.99% <0.00%> (-5.89%)	⬇️
internal/querynodev2/segments/search.go	68.11% <0.00%> (-21.74%)	⬇️
pkg/util/paramtable/param_item.go	83.75% <33.33%> (-6.02%)	⬇️
internal/querynodev2/segments/segment_loader.go	71.25% <0.00%> (-0.84%)	⬇️

... and 45 files with indirect coverage changes

[czs007]

/approve
/lgtm

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